Colossians 3:4 says that Christ is our life, and this is so important to me when I list my priorities. As a young, married woman I knew it was supposed to be God first - then my husband, my family, my church, my work, and my other relationships. We get raised on this mentality. We compartmentalize priorities like a chest of drawers, making God the top drawer. Hover, that mentality is fruitless because God says, "I don't want to be the most important thing in your life. I want to be your life."